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Holidays After Child Loss: Seven Practical Ways to Help Grieving Hearts
Here are seven practical ways to minister to your grieving friends this Christmas.

Melanie
Dec 4, 20242 min read
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Grief Work: The Pain of Fading Memories
It's normal that Dominic is less and less a part of his friends lives over time. But it still hurts...

Melanie
Dec 2, 20241 min read
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Grief Work: A Letter to My Living Children *
Oh how I love you!
Your brother’s untimely departure has opened my heart in a whole new way to the glory that is your presence.

Melanie
Nov 29, 20241 min read
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Grief Work: Thoughts Matter
So much of this battle has been fought in my mind. Really, even more than my heart. What I dwell on makes a difference.

Melanie
Nov 27, 20241 min read
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Grief Work: Baby Steps Count!
I don't have to meet a timetable or get anyone's approval. It's my journey and baby steps count!

Melanie
Nov 25, 20241 min read
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Grief Work: Marking the Milestones
Parents look forward to marking milestones in their child's life. They never plan to have to mark the milestone of their death.

Melanie
Nov 22, 20241 min read
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Grief Work: What's the Difference Between Solitude and Isolation?
Since Dominic ran ahead to Heaven, I find I need even more alone time than before. But I take care that solitude doesn’t become isolation.

Melanie
Nov 20, 20241 min read
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Grief Work: What About My Marriage?
Marriage is hard work under the best of circumstances. Child loss makes it harder. But there are ways to create space and to extend grace.

Melanie
Nov 18, 20241 min read
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Grief Work: Healthy Boundaries
In the aftermath of child loss, healthy boundaries are no longer optional, they are necessary for survival. Â

Melanie
Nov 15, 20241 min read
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Grief Work: Grief is a Family Affair
Child loss is often sibling loss. In addition to their own heartache, bereaved parents carry the heartache of their surviving children.

Melanie
Nov 13, 20241 min read
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Grief Work: Dealing With Anxious Thoughts
I am learning to take anxious thoughts captive, learning to make them live in only a corner of my mind instead of taking it over completely.

Melanie
Nov 11, 20241 min read
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Grief Work: Will It Ever Get Better?
Do I have any control over whether or not this burden gets lighter?

Melanie
Nov 8, 20241 min read
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Grief Work: Shake Off the Shame
Shame tells us we are unworthy of love and belonging and that is simply a lie.

Melanie
Nov 6, 20241 min read
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Webinar: Remembering Our Children During the Holidays
I and several other seasoned bereaved parents will share a bit about how to navigate this difficult time of year.

Melanie
Nov 4, 20241 min read
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Grief Work: Self-Care Isn't Optional
When taking care of others means NOT taking care of myself, then in the end, I’m of no use to anyone

Melanie
Oct 30, 20241 min read
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Grief Work: Can't Fake It Forever
Child loss is hard. Child loss is not "curable" or "solvable" and it's not helpful to pretend it is.

Melanie
Oct 28, 20241 min read
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