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Holidays After Loss: Inviting Grief to the Christmas Table
Joy and sorrow both dwell in my soul and I cannot reveal one and hide the other. Â I may laugh and cry in the same moment.

Melanie
Dec 18, 20242 min read
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Holidays After Child Loss: Grief and Hard Conversations
Change is hard on everyone. But it's harder if you don't have important conversations.

Melanie
Dec 6, 20241 min read
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Holidays After Child Loss: Seven Practical Ways to Help Grieving Hearts
Here are seven practical ways to minister to your grieving friends this Christmas.

Melanie
Dec 4, 20242 min read
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Grief Work: The Pain of Fading Memories
It's normal that Dominic is less and less a part of his friends lives over time. But it still hurts...

Melanie
Dec 2, 20241 min read
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Grief Work: Baby Steps Count!
I don't have to meet a timetable or get anyone's approval. It's my journey and baby steps count!

Melanie
Nov 25, 20241 min read
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Grief Work: Healthy Boundaries
In the aftermath of child loss, healthy boundaries are no longer optional, they are necessary for survival. Â

Melanie
Nov 15, 20241 min read
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Grief Work: Grief is a Family Affair
Child loss is often sibling loss. In addition to their own heartache, bereaved parents carry the heartache of their surviving children.

Melanie
Nov 13, 20241 min read
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Grief Work: Self-Care Isn't Optional
When taking care of others means NOT taking care of myself, then in the end, I’m of no use to anyone

Melanie
Oct 30, 20241 min read
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Grief Work: Can't Fake It Forever
Child loss is hard. Child loss is not "curable" or "solvable" and it's not helpful to pretend it is.

Melanie
Oct 28, 20241 min read
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Grief Work: I Can Get Back Up. Even When It Hurts.
Every time I fall and get back up I prove to my heart it's possible.

Melanie
Oct 25, 20241 min read
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Grief Work: How Stress Impacts Grief
Grief means there is already a low-level hum of background stress every. single. day.

Melanie
Oct 23, 20241 min read
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Grief Work: Find Just ONE Thing to Do
If you can’t do it all, do something.
And celebrate.

Melanie
Oct 21, 20241 min read
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Grief Work: Elusive Sleep
Sleep is important. I can’t do the work grief requires if I go too long without it.

Melanie
Oct 11, 20241 min read
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Grief Work: Setting Aside Time to Grieve
I’ve learned it’s best to find quiet moments to journal feelings that might be unhelpful or downright hurtful to express to others.

Melanie
Oct 9, 20241 min read
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